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How can I help ease the pain of having sex for the first time?

I'm 21 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and we have never had sex before (shocker, huh). We're both virgins and we have had oral sex with each other and messed around in other ways but I have felt for a long time that I was ready to finally do the deed. Although I'm ready and my boyfriend has been so supportive and sensitive of this whole sex thing, I am horribly scared of having sex for the first time because I have heard it hurt A LOT! He has tried to stick his finger in there but even THAT freaking hurts, even when I am lubricated enough. Are there any ways to ease the pain? What should I do? Should I maybe get drunk to get all relaxed (I'm serious) or buy some kind of lubrication or something? Please help! I'm so lost with all this stuff.




Best answer:

Answer by nosfourato
well thats weird usally it isnt suppost to hurt. Try some advil or some regular pain killers if that doesnt work then....

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